Block 24

Interacting with Others:
Option 1

Social-Emotional

One-to-One

Skill and Goal

Social interaction skills
A toddler participates with a caregiver in open-ended play that includes informal demonstrations of positive social interactions.

Materials
Needed

  • Blocks or housekeeping items (see Be Prepared)

Key
Concepts

  • Sharing
  • Play

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language

Be Prepared: Situate this play interaction in blocks, housekeeping, or an area that is of interest to the toddler who participates. Make sure items the toddler likes to play with are fully available. The activity description assumes play occurs in blocks. This is for illustration purposes only.

Begin:

Would you like to play together in blocks? It is fun to play with blocks. There are neat things we can do with blocks!

[If the toddler declines, extend your invitation on another day.]

Act:

[If the toddler shows interest in playing, ask if there is something he/she would like to build with you. Or suggest a joint activity with blocks that you anticipate would be of interest to the toddler. Example: building a road that each of you drives a separate car on. Engage the toddler in the joint activity only if the toddler shows interest. Follow the toddler’s lead.

If a joint activity is not pursued, play with several blocks in ways that are of interest to you. Encourage the toddler to use the blocks in ways he/she wishes. Use the following strategies at appropriate times during the play activity:

  • Describe what the toddler is doing. Describe what you are doing.
  • Ask the toddler for help or suggestions in your activity. Example: “I want to build a tower. What blocks should I use? Where should I put my tower?”
  • Acknowledge the toddler’s efforts to interact during the activity. Example: “You gave me two blocks. Thank you. Do you want me to use these blocks for my tower? Do you want me to help you build your tower?”
  • Demonstrate sharing or turn-taking with a play material or action. Example: “I am going to drive this car around my tower. Do you want to drive this car around your tower, too?”
  • Provide words for the toddler to use. Example: “You can say, ‘I drive car.’ This tells me you want to drive the car, too.”

Play alongside or with the toddler as long as time and toddler interest permit.]

Recap:

We had fun playing together in blocks.

[Briefly describe highlights of the session, especially instances of sharing or joint activity. Thank the toddler for playing with you.]

Block 24

Interacting with Others:
Option 2

Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Social interaction skills
Toddlers engage in open-ended play with novel materials, with guided opportunities to notice positive social interactions.

Materials
Needed

  • Dramatic play or housekeeping area
  • New materials (see Be Prepared)

Key
Concepts

  • Sharing

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language

Be Prepared: Add materials that are not typically available in your room and that you anticipate will be of interest to toddlers who participate in this activity. Examples: real food boxes and containers, dress-up clothes such as scarves and hats, or real baby items such as small diapers and bottles.

Invite several toddlers to join you to play in the housekeeping area. Point to or display the additional new items as you describe each with enthusiasm. Suggest some ways toddlers may want to play with new items.

Encourage toddlers to use materials as they wish. The toddlers may engage in a joint activity or, more likely, pursue parallel play. Engage in your own play with several items as a way of informally demonstrating their possible use. Describe what you are doing and what others are doing.

Use the following strategies, as appropriate, to promote positive social interactions:

  • Demonstrate sharing an item with a toddler by offering to pass on an item you are using. Example: “Xander, you are watching me use this baby bottle. Would you like to use the baby bottle now?”
  • Point out instances of a toddler sharing a play item, especially an item related to another toddler’s play. Example: “Hilary gave a doll to Sammy. Sammy is taking some dolls for a ride in a cart. Hilary is sharing her doll with Sammy.”
  • Encourage toddlers to notice what each other is doing by offering brief descriptions at periodic intervals during the activity. Examples: “Our friend Tenisha is cooking something.” “Our friend Samantha is putting on a big hat.” “Our friend Hudson is putting a diaper on a baby doll.”
  • Suggest words for a toddler to use in describing his/her interests. Example: “Hilary, you can say to Sammy, ‘I want the doll back after the ride.’”
  • Suggest toddlers engage in a shared activity and/or take turns. Examples: “Maybe both of you can put things in the cart. Then you can take turns pushing the cart. I can help you take turns.” “Samantha and Xander, you are both playing with an animal figure. Maybe the dog and the cat would like to play together.”

What to Look For—Options 1–2

Both activity options involve your careful involvement as a commentator and demonstrator of appropriate social interactions without directing the activity. Build on naturally occurring events or toddler communications during the play rather than impose an example that may disrupt the flow of interactions or activities. The word “informal” in the Option 1 goal statement is important to remember as you interact with a toddler. There may be opportunities to use only several of the five comment and demonstration suggestions offered in each activity plan.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Options 1–2

Extra support

  • Limit the number of play materials in both options. Offering too many items may make it difficult for toddlers to make choices and move forward with play.
  • Acknowledge a toddler’s efforts to communicate displeasure with something, or a wish to stop doing something, or not do something. Example: “You are shaking your head ‘no.’ You don’t want to play with the car I put near your blocks. You can say ‘no’ and give me the car.”

Enrichment

  • Invite a toddler to secure (or you help secure) an available material in your room that the toddler mentions during play.
Social-Emotional

Interest Area

Materials Needed: see activity description

Provide opportunities for toddlers to continue play actions from Option 1 or 2. Arrange materials in an inviting manner. Toddlers may wish to involve other peers in the activity or pursue an interest triggered during the activity with you. In contrast with your direct involvement in Options 1 and 2, stay nearby as an observer of play and offer comments about positive social interactions as appropriate.

Family Child Care

Family Child Care

Materials Needed: see activity description

Options 1 and 2 are highly appropriate for older toddlers and preschool-age children. You may wish to emphasize use of language with older children, including examples of complete sentences and words that can help children interact well with others.