Block 20

Exploring Feelings:
Option 1

Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Awareness of emotions
Toddlers participate in a book sharing focused on how a mama fox loves her little fox no matter what he does.

Materials
Needed

  • I Love You Because You’re You by Liza Baker

Key
Concepts

  • Love

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language
  • Cognitive

Begin:

[Invite several toddlers to read a book about being loved.]

Our book is about a mama fox who loves her little fox.

Act:

[Show book cover. Point to the mama and little fox.]

Here is Mama Fox. Here is her Little Fox. What are they doing? (hugging)

Explain:

Mama Fox and Little Fox love each other! Let’s find out more about the mama and little fox.

Act:

[Use the following strategies to share the book:

  • Use your own words to describe and explain what is happening on each page. Example: “The little fox is angry because his mama is making him get ready for bed. He wanted to keep playing!”
  • Point to and describe parts of illustrations that help explain a situation, such as Little Fox standing behind his mama when he feels bashful.
  • Describe words toddlers may not know that are central to understanding a picture—such as frightened, bashful, brave, curious, and proud.
  • Acknowledge and build on toddlers’ comments and pointing.
  • Emphasize the book’s theme that the mama always, always loved her little fox.]
Recap:

The little fox did lots of different things in our story. Did his mama ever stop loving him? (no!) The mama fox always loved her little fox.

What to Look For—Option 1

Monitor toddlers’ reactions to your words and the pictures to determine whether to provide more description or explanation of a situation or feeling. Most toddlers will understand many of the little fox’s behaviors, such as standing on his head and being sick. Most toddlers will understand many of the little fox’s emotions, like feeling happy, sad, and angry. They likely have experienced feeling frightened, bashful, brave, proud, and curious, but may be unfamiliar with the words that describe these feelings. The goal is not to introduce a wide range of feeling words, but to help toddlers appreciate the bigger idea that Little Fox’s mama loves him no matter what he does or what he feels.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Option 1

Extra support

  • Point to and name or describe important features of each picture, such as Little Fox standing on his head and tears in his eyes when he is crying.

Enrichment

  • Point out some of Mama Fox’s behaviors, such as holding her ears when Little Fox screams and shouts. But she never stops loving him!
Block 20

Exploring Feelings:
Option 2

Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Awareness of emotions
Toddlers participate in a book sharing focused on a little fox’s feelings in different situations.

Materials
Needed

  • I Love You Because You’re You by Liza Baker

Key
Concepts

  • Feelings

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language
  • Cognitive

This book sharing is designed as a follow-up to Option 1. The focus of the current session is situations in which Little Fox:

(1) feels happy or good about himself— standing on his head, rolling on the rug, and finding a lost ball, and

(2) feels sad, worried, or angry—frightened by a noise, bashful in a new situation, and crying because he does not want to do something.

Select situations in the book that you anticipate will be helpful for toddlers in your gathering to talk about, especially situations that you can easily help toddlers connect to their own experiences. Two or three situations of each of these two broad types of feelings will likely be sufficient for the session.

Use the following approach to talking about each situation:

  • Remind toddlers what is happening in the picture.
  • Talk with toddlers about what Little Fox is feeling and why, such as how Little Fox is feeling angry because he does not want to get ready for bed.
  • Help toddlers connect the situation or Little Fox’s feeling to their own experiences, such as a related event in your room. Example: “We heard a siren this week during snack time. The siren made us feel worried. We found out that no one was in trouble or danger. People made the siren go to make sure the siren was working.”

Conclude the session by emphasizing that Little Fox had different types of feelings in different situations, and by reminding toddlers that Mama Fox loves Little Fox no matter what he did or how he felt.

What to Look For—Option 2

This option offers a closer look at what Little Fox might be feeling in different situations. As suggested in the activity description, select situations that you anticipate will be meaningful to toddlers in your gathering. Talking about similar situations in your room offers a shared context for discussion. Toddlers will likely be more aware of their similar situations and feelings than they are able to communicate verbally. Look for opportunities to connect with individual toddlers through eye contact, smiles, and other nonverbal means in response to their facial expressions, nods, gestures, or brief utterances.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Option 2

Extra support

  • Point to specific aspects of illustrations when you describe and explain what is happening. Example: “The little fox is looking down the dark stairs. He is feeling scared because it is dark. His mama is close; she is keeping him safe.”

Enrichment

  • Invite toddlers to tell what is happening in a picture or why Little Fox may be feeling happy.
Social-Emotional

Interest Area

Materials Needed: paper and crayons or markers

Draw toddlers’ attention to how Little Fox drew a picture (a valentine) for his mama in our story. Invite toddlers to draw something special for someone who loves them. Offer to add a toddler’s words to his/her picture.

Family Child Care

Family Child Care

Materials Needed: I Love You Because You’re You by Liza Baker

Invite preschool-age children to participate in Options 1 and 2 and in the Interest Area activity. Preschool-age children’s contributions to the discussion of similar situations or feelings in Option 2 may be particularly helpful.