Block 18

Exploring Feelings:
Option 1

Social-Emotional

One-to-One

Skill and Goal

Awareness of emotions
A toddler explores ways to communicate and respond to some common emotions.

Materials
Needed

  • Making Faces: A First Book of Emotions by Abrams Appleseed

Key
Concepts

  • Face
  • Feeling

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language

BEGIN:

[Invite a toddler to look at pictures of children’s faces.]

We are learning about different ways we can feel inside. We know about feeling happy, and we know about feeling sad.

ASK:

Making Faces book cover[Show book cover. Point to the faces.]

  • Which baby looks happy?
  • What tells us the baby is happy? (smile)
EXPLAIN:

Our book shows different types of faces. Let’s look at each face and talk about what the child may be feeling. Our book is called Making Faces.

ACT:

[Use the following approach to each pictured face:

  • Ask the toddler what the child may be feeling. If the toddler seems uncertain, offer two feeling possibilities, one of which is accurate. Example: “Do you think this baby is feeling happy or sad?” If you offer a name for the pictured expression, encourage the toddler to repeat the name with you.
  • Describe and point to features of the facial expression that communicate the emotion. Example: “This baby looks like she is going to cry. Here are some tears in the baby’s eyes.”
  • Encourage the toddler to point to the facial expression on the next page that communicates the emotion shown on the prior page. Example: “Which face looks angry?”
  • Ask: What is something we can do when we feel (emotion)? Include the following in the discussion of possible things to do:
    • Happy: clap our hands
    • Sad: get a hug
    • Angry: take a deep breath
    • Surprised: say “oh my”
    • Silly: laugh and laugh
  • Take additional time on the sad and angry pictures to talk about how getting a hug can help us feel better when we feel sad and how taking a deep breath can help us feel better when we are angry.]
RECAP:

Everyone can feel the ways we talked about. It is okay to feel sad or angry or happy or silly or surprised.

What to Look For—Option 1

A toddler may try to make a face similar to the pictured face. Acknowledge this effort. “You are showing me a sad face.”

Some toddlers may need support for identifying the pictured face among the collection of five faces. One approach is to point to 1–2 pictures and ask if the baby looks like he/she is feeling the emotion under discussion.

The examples of how we can respond to feeling sad and angry are different from the other three emotions explored in this activity. The suggestions (sad: get a hug; angry: take a deep breath) are among some positive ways to deal with these emotions. Suggestions for the other three emotions focus on ways to express an emotion, such as laughing when we feel silly. Encourage the toddler to talk about other things we might do when we feel sad or angry or other ways we can show we are happy, silly, and surprised.

Look for ways to emphasize the names of emotions shown in the five pictures and to encourage the toddler to say the emotion name. An important step in emotion awareness is to be familiar with emotion names.

The pictured faces intended to show surprise and silly may be difficult for a toddler to identify. There are many ways children and adults can communicate feeling surprised and silly through facial expressions. You may ask the toddler to show what his/her face looks like when he/she is feeling surprised (or silly).

This activity option extends the attention to feelings in Blocks 16 and 17 (Social-Emotional). The book was featured in a Block 18 activity for younger toddlers (12–24 months) with a focus on facial expressions.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Option 1

Extra support

  • Explain that angry and mad mean the same thing.
  • Explain that surprised means something happened we did not expect to happen. Offer an example that is familiar to the toddler, such as a toddler’s surprise at having a parent come early to retrieve the toddler from your room one day.

Enrichment

  • A toddler may enjoy exploring his/her face in the mirror at the end of the book.
Block 18

Exploring Feelings:
Option 2

Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Awareness of emotions
Toddlers sing about and show facial expressions for some common emotions.

Materials
Needed

  • Making Faces: A First Book of Emotions by Abrams Appleseed

Key
Concepts

  • Feeling

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language
  • Self-Regulation

Be Prepared: This activity is for toddlers who are familiar with the five feelings shown in the Making Faces book featured in Option 1. Be familiar with the tune of the “If You’re Happy and You Know It” song.

Making Faces book coverInvite 4–6 toddlers to join in singing about different ways we can feel. Show the book cover and review each of the five large pictures that show a child communicating a specific feeling. Encourage toddlers to say the name of the feeling. Repeat the name. Suggest a way we can show or deal with what we are feeling, as follows:

  • If you’re happy and you know it, clap your hands.
  • If you’re sad and you know it, get a hug.
  • If you’re angry (mad) and you know it, take a deep breath.
  • If you’re surprised and you know it, say “oh my.”
  • If you’re silly and you know it, laugh and laugh.

Then invite toddlers to stand and sing a verse of “If You’re Happy and You Know It” for each feeling. Preview the key phrase, such as “get a hug,” prior to singing the verse. Do actions when appropriate, such as clapping your hands, pretending to give or get a hug, and taking a deep breath. Accentuate “oh my” with voice and facial expression when you say it.

What to Look For—Option 2

The familiar tune of the song encourages toddlers to think about an emotion shown in facial expressions and in prior discussion without the task of learning a new song. This promotes the self-regulation skill of short-term memory and offers another opportunity to say an emotion word.

The activity is more challenging than Option 1 because it involves song, some actions, and activity alongside peers. The popular song is featured in the Communication/Language activity in the current block with different physical movements requested in the song.

Some toddlers may prefer to watch, whereas others may enjoy doing the actions but prefer not to sing.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Option 2

Extra support

  • Show the pertinent picture of a child in the book prior to singing the corresponding verse.

Enrichment

  • Encourage toddlers to show a facial expression that communicates the feeling featured in the verse. It is not necessary for toddlers to mimic the face shown in the book.
Social-Emotional

Interest Area

Materials Needed: Making Faces: A First Book of Emotions by Abrams Appleseed, Baby Faces by Margaret Miller, 3–4 nonbreakable, handheld mirrors in different sizes

Place a basket of 3–4 mirrors in a comfortable reading area along with the suggested books. Invite toddlers individually or in small gatherings to look at faces in the books, and to explore their own reflections in the mirrors. Some toddlers may make different faces in the mirrors, whereas others may enjoy exploring their facial and hair features. Talk with the toddlers about what they see.

Family Child Care

Family Child Care

Materials Needed: Different mirrors, including the Interest Area materials and mirrors affixed to walls

Children of all ages enjoy seeing their reflection in a mirror. Babies can look at themselves in a large mirror affixed to the wall, and older children will enjoy use of a full-length mirror to observe themselves dressing up and playing different roles. Encourage preschool-age and older children to show emotions that are more challenging to communicate in facial expressions, such as feeling frustrated or proud.