Social interaction skills
A toddler participates with a caregiver in open-ended play that includes informal demonstrations of positive social interactions.
Be Prepared: Situate this play interaction in blocks, housekeeping, or an area that is of interest to the toddler who participates. Make sure items the toddler likes to play with are fully available. The activity description assumes play occurs in blocks. This is for illustration purposes only.
Would you like to play together in blocks? It is fun to play with blocks. There are neat things we can do with blocks!
[If the toddler declines, extend your invitation on another day.]
[If the toddler shows interest in playing, ask if there is something he/she would like to build with you. Or suggest a joint activity with blocks that you anticipate would be of interest to the toddler. Example: building a road that each of you drives a separate car on. Engage the toddler in the joint activity only if the toddler shows interest. Follow the toddler’s lead.
If a joint activity is not pursued, play with several blocks in ways that are of interest to you. Encourage the toddler to use the blocks in ways he/she wishes. Use the following strategies at appropriate times during the play activity:
Play alongside or with the toddler as long as time and toddler interest permit.]
We had fun playing together in blocks.
[Briefly describe highlights of the session, especially instances of sharing or joint activity. Thank the toddler for playing with you.]
Social interaction skills
Toddlers engage in open-ended play with novel materials, with guided opportunities to notice positive social interactions.
Be Prepared: Add materials that are not typically available in your room and that you anticipate will be of interest to toddlers who participate in this activity. Examples: real food boxes and containers, dress-up clothes such as scarves and hats, or real baby items such as small diapers and bottles.
Invite several toddlers to join you to play in the housekeeping area. Point to or display the additional new items as you describe each with enthusiasm. Suggest some ways toddlers may want to play with new items.
Encourage toddlers to use materials as they wish. The toddlers may engage in a joint activity or, more likely, pursue parallel play. Engage in your own play with several items as a way of informally demonstrating their possible use. Describe what you are doing and what others are doing.
Use the following strategies, as appropriate, to promote positive social interactions:
Both activity options involve your careful involvement as a commentator and demonstrator of appropriate social interactions without directing the activity. Build on naturally occurring events or toddler communications during the play rather than impose an example that may disrupt the flow of interactions or activities. The word “informal” in the Option 1 goal statement is important to remember as you interact with a toddler. There may be opportunities to use only several of the five comment and demonstration suggestions offered in each activity plan.
Extra support
Enrichment
Materials Needed: see activity description
Provide opportunities for toddlers to continue play actions from Option 1 or 2. Arrange materials in an inviting manner. Toddlers may wish to involve other peers in the activity or pursue an interest triggered during the activity with you. In contrast with your direct involvement in Options 1 and 2, stay nearby as an observer of play and offer comments about positive social interactions as appropriate.
Materials Needed: see activity description
Options 1 and 2 are highly appropriate for older toddlers and preschool-age children. You may wish to emphasize use of language with older children, including examples of complete sentences and words that can help children interact well with others.