Social interaction skills
A young infant participates in back-and-forth interactions with a caregiver.
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[Sit in a comfortable position holding an infant in your arms or on your lap, facing you.
Smile and begin talking with the infant. Example: “Hello, Mateo. I am happy you are here today!” Watch the infant for signs of interest in interacting with you, such as gazing at you, vocalizing, kicking his/her legs, or reaching toward you. Acknowledge the infant’s reactions, including any vocalizations, facial expressions, or gestures. Examples: “You are smiling, Jasmine! I smiled at you, and you are smiling at me!”
If the infant shows signs of disinterest (such as looking away, fussing, or turning away from you), end the activity and try engaging him/her at a later time.]
[Encourage the infant to engage in a back-and-forth exchange with you by imitating the infant’s facial expressions and vocalizations. Example: “You are kicking your legs and talking to me, Lucia. I hear you! ‘Da-da-da, da-da-da.’”
Pause for the infant to respond. Continue to smile and make eye contact with the infant. After a pause, imitate the infant’s facial expressions and extend any vocalizations.
To continue the interaction, add a new facial expression and/or vocalization for the infant to react to. Consider using actions, such as the following:
Remember to pause and provide space for the infant to respond throughout the interaction. Allow the infant’s reactions to lead the activity. If the infant responds with vocalizations, respond with the same. If the infant gazes at your face and shows interest in your facial expressions, respond with a different type of facial expression. Wrap up the activity when the infant begins to show signs of disinterest.]
[Offer a brief description of what happened during the activity. Example: “Thank you for spending time with me, Mateo. We made some silly faces. I stuck out my tongue. Then you stuck out your tongue! You smiled so big when I blew raspberries! We had fun together.”]
Social interaction skills
An infant participates in back-and-forth interactions with a caregiver focused on block play.
Invite an infant to sit with you on the floor to play together with blocks. Place the bucket between you and the infant, with half the blocks next to the infant and half next to you. Invite the infant to play by describing the items and activity. Point to the blocks and bucket as you describe each. Example: “Hi Tiana! Look, I have some blocks for us to play with. Here are blocks for you. Here are blocks for me. Let’s have fun putting the blocks in the bucket!”
Begin the play by dropping one of your blocks into the bucket. Watch the infant’s reaction to the dropped block and recognize his/her response. Example: “You watched me drop my block into the bucket. You are looking in the bucket! Did you hear the ‘plop’ sound?” Once the infant has had time to respond, point to the blocks next to the infant and invite him/her to place a block into the bucket. Example: “Would you like to put a block in the bucket? It is your turn to drop a block in!” If the infant does not put a block in, demonstrate again how to drop a block into the bucket. Describe your actions and show enthusiasm as the block drops in. Encourage the infant to do the same.
Continue the activity by encouraging the infant to take turns placing the blocks into the bucket. Use strategies, such as the following, to promote back-and-forth interactions with the infant during the activity:
Describe what is happening. Examples: “You smiled when my block dropped into the bucket. I think you like watching the blocks drop into the bucket!” “We are taking turns putting blocks in the bucket! I put a block in. Then you put a block in. We are putting our blocks in the bucket.”
Remember to pause for the infant to respond to your words and to the activity itself. Leave spaces in your back-and-forth interaction for the infant to start or contribute to the exchange. Focus on interactions with the infant, rather than getting all the blocks in the bucket or having a perfect turn-taking pattern.
Social interaction skills
An older infant participates in back-and-forth interactions with a caregiver during play with a ball.
Invite an infant to sit across from you on the floor to play with a ball. Stretch your legs out toward the infant to create a border for the ball. Engage the infant by talking and showing him/her the ball. Roll the ball gently toward the infant. Encourage the infant to roll the ball back to you. Example: “I roll the ball to you, Matthew. You roll it back to me!” If the infant is not able to roll the ball, move closer and provide additional assistance to help him/her touch and move the ball. Show enthusiasm each time the ball reaches the infant and he/she rolls the ball back to you. Continue to encourage the infant to participate in the simple back-and-forth game. Some infants may want to play with the ball for several minutes, others for a shorter time. Describe the infant’s participation in the interaction. Remember that back-and-forth interaction with the infant is more important than back-and-forth action with the ball.
Each of these options encourage responsive interactions with infants that can strengthen both social and emotional connections between you and the infant. Allow the infant’s reactions to lead the activity. Be flexible about how you approach each option while attempting to engage the infant in a turn-taking exchange. Example: If an infant is not interested in placing the blocks in the bucket, suggest a related activity with the blocks. (See Extra Support tip below.) Pay attention to the infant’s level of excitement about the activity and adjust your response. (See Extra Support tip below.) Watch for signals that suggest the infant wishes to continue interacting. If the infant looks away, fusses, or turns his/her body away from you, shift the activity to allow a break from the interaction. Affirm the infant’s efforts to engage in back-and-forth interactions.
Extra support
Enrichment
Materials Needed: assortment of blocks; several containers, such as a bucket, basket, or bowl
Provide opportunities for infants to play with blocks and containers. Infants may enjoy exploring the blocks individually, or practice filling and dumping the containers. Infants may enjoy watching their peers engage in the materials in similar ways. Describe the infants’ actions with the blocks. Recognize facial expressions and repeat and extend any vocalizations while the infants play.
Materials Needed: several soft balls
Provide balls for small groups of children to play with. You may wish to pair one or two older children with infants (who are sitting independently) and toddlers. Invite the small groups of children to place their feet far apart and meet each other to help keep the ball from leaving the area. Young infants can participate while sitting in your lap during the activity. Give each group a ball to practice rolling back and forth. Talk with children about their actions and efforts to take turns rolling the ball.