Block 15

Interacting with Others:
Option 1

Social-Emotional
Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Social interaction skills

Toddlers explore pretend roles during dramatic play with peers.

Materials
Needed

  • New items for the dramatic play area (see Be Prepared)

Key
Concepts

  • Play together

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language
  • Cognitive

Optional
Reading

Bear’s Busy Family (A Barefoot Board Book) by Stella Blackstone

Be Prepared: Add items to the dramatic play area that will appeal to toddlers and support pretend play that toddlers determine. Possibilities: purses, wallets, hats, scarves, chunky necklaces, neckties, vests, shoes, baby bottles, extra-small diapers, empty food boxes and containers, pots and pans.

Invite several toddlers to play in the dramatic play area. Introduce the new items and use their initial responses to the items to talk about how the materials could be used in their play. Examples: “Devon, you like to play with the baby dolls. Would you like to use the new bottles and diapers with your babies?” “LaShawn, I see you are looking at the new dress-up clothes. What do you want to dress up as?” As toddlers share their ideas, encourage them to play together. Example: “LaShawn wants to dress up and go to a restaurant. Who would like to be a chef and cook in the restaurant with our new pots and pans?”

As toddlers play, look for opportunities to provide play cues that expand their interactions with the materials and each other. Examples: “Devon, you changed your baby’s diaper and gave him a bottle. What are you going to do next with your baby?” “Gavin is dressing up. He is wearing a necktie and a hat! Maybe Gavin should go to the restaurant with LaShawn! LaShawn, would you like Gavin to go to the restaurant with you?”

If appropriate, suggest using a new material with an item consistently available in the area. Example: “Gabby, I see that you are putting your baby to bed. Would you like to choose a book to read to your baby before she goes to sleep?”

Toddlers may invite you into their play. Be careful to join them without changing the direction of their play. Example: “Cayden wants me to be a waitress at his restaurant. Can I take your food order, LaShawn? What would you like to eat tonight?”

Recognize and acknowledge all play efforts. Example: “Maya had fun pretending to be a chef with the new pots and pans. LaShawn had fun ordering his favorite food!”

What to Look For - Option 1

Providing real items in the dramatic play area may spark new interest in pretend play and provide a greater variety of roles for toddlers to explore. Some toddlers may prefer to watch and possibly imitate others. Some toddlers will enjoy exploring new roles with the new materials. Toddlers may act out familiar routines, such as bedtime, or work through difficult experiences, such as saying goodbye to a parent.

Provide suggestions and cues that extend toddlers’ play without dominating their actions. Some toddlers will prefer to watch and may imitate the play of others. These are initial steps in learning how to play with others.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips - Option 1

Extra support

  • Toddlers who have difficulty engaging in pretend play may benefit from you demonstrating some ways to use the new materials. Example: “I am going to dress up fancy. I am putting on a fancy hat and necklace. What shoes do you think I should wear with my outfit?”
  • Validate each toddler’s efforts to play pretend. Example: “Martin, you are wearing a hat and building with the blocks. I wonder if you are pretending to be a builder or an architect.”
  • Some toddlers may be more comfortable playing next to others. Provide duplicate items so they can play side by side without conflict over a particular material.

Enrichment

  • Provide suggestions for new ways to use the materials in the dramatic play area. Examples: Use a beaded necklace as spaghetti to stir in a pot. Use a scarf tied like a sling to wear a baby doll like a mother wears a baby in a sling.
  • Encourage toddlers to think of new roles to play with the new materials. Example: “You are dressing up fancy. Where are you going to go in your fancy outfit? Maybe you are a shopper, or maybe you are going to a dance!”
Block 15

Interacting with Others:
Option 2

Social-Emotional
Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Social interaction skills

Toddlers engage in theme-based pretend play with their peers.

Materials
Needed

  • Items that encourage a new play theme

Key
Concepts

  • Play together

Also
Promotes

  • Communication/Language
  • Cognitive

Optional
Reading

Leo Gets a Checkup by Anna McQuinn

My Doctor’s Visit by Cara Florance and Jon Florance

Going to the Doctor by Anne Civardi (Usborne First Experience series)

Corduroy Goes to the Doctor by Don Freeman

Be Prepared: Select and provide special props to support pretend play related to a theme of interest to toddlers. Example: For a theme focused on going to the doctor (often popular with toddlers), add medical face masks, scrub shirts, stethoscopes, bandages, clean medicine syringes, clipboard with paper and pens. Other play themes may include getting a haircut, taking a pet to the vet, shopping at a shoe store, being a construction worker, or working in an office. Providing new materials related to a theme of interest to toddlers is central to this activity option.

Invite several toddlers to play together with the new items in a theme you suggest. You may wish to provide a book or two with pictures of the new items that toddlers can look at and learn about. Talk with the toddlers about new roles they may be interested in exploring with the materials. Example: In a doctor play theme, toddlers may want to pretend to be a doctor, a nurse, a patient, or a parent taking a child to an appointment. Help toddlers plan ways to play together. Example: “Chloe and Hayley want to be doctors. Who would like to be a patient for them to take care of?”

Similar to Option 1, demonstrate uses of items, if appropriate, and look for opportunities to provide play cues that expand the toddlers’ interactions with the materials and each other. If toddlers invite you into their play, take care to join them without changing the direction of their play. Recognize and affirm all efforts to participate in pretend play. Example: “We played doctor’s office together. Chloe and Hayley were doctors and Nolan was the patient. I pretended to be Nolan’s mother, and I held his hand when Hayley gave him a shot. We had fun playing together!”

What to Look For - Option 2

This activity option is more challenging than Option 1 because it begins with a play theme related to new materials. Option 1 begins with new materials and encourages play with the materials that may or may not emerge into a theme.

Toddlers enjoy acting out familiar experiences. Pretending to be a doctor, vet, hairstylist, or shopper are roles that toddlers can connect to their personal lives. Some toddlers will need extra support as they interact with new materials. (See Extra Support tip.) Other toddlers will pick up new props and find ways to use them independently. Some toddlers may prefer to watch the play, and others may play beside other toddlers. Some toddlers may need extra support to join in the play. Toddlers can learn new social skills by watching as well as carrying out pretend play.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips - Option 2

Extra support

  • Demonstrate appropriate ways to use the materials, such as putting on a medical mask and listening to the heartbeat of a baby doll with a stethoscope.
  • Explain reasons for and uses of new materials. Example: “Some doctors and nurses wear masks to protect everyone from germs.”

Enrichment

  • Create prop boxes that you can add to the dramatic play area to spark new interest in pretend play and exploring new roles. Consider play themes that the toddlers in your care are interested in.
Social-Emotional

Interest Area

Materials Needed: new items provided in Options 1 and/or 2

Provide time for the toddlers to explore and play with the new materials independently and with friends. Toddlers will enjoy finding new ways to interact and explore social roles that they were unable to engage in during the planned activity. Talk with the toddlers about their ideas and actions as they play.

Family Child Care

Family Child Care

Materials Needed: Option 2 items

It is likely that the Option 2 theme will be of interest to preschool-age and older children in your setting. Encourage their participation. Toddlers will enjoy watching, imitating, and joining in the play of the older children. Older infants may enjoy being “doctored” gently with a stethoscope and loose bandages with close caregiver supervision.