Block 24

Exploring Feelings:
Option 1

Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Awareness of emotions
Toddlers participate in a book sharing about different types of feelings.

Materials
Needed

  • How Do You Feel? (Rookie Toddler) by Jodie Shepherd

Key
Concepts

  • Happy
  • Mad
  • Sad

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language

Be Prepared: Limit participation to no more than three toddlers so all children can see pictures in the small board book.

BEGIN:

[Invite up to three toddlers to join you in reading a book about feelings.]

We are learning about how we might feel when something happens. Some things make us feel happy. Sometimes things happen that make us feel mad. Sometimes we feel sad.

ASK:

How do you feel book cover[Display book cover.]

Look at the boy on the cover of our book. What do you think this boy is feeling? (mad, angry)

EXPLAIN:

Our book has pictures of children who are feeling different things. Some children are feeling happy. Some children are feeling mad. Let’s look inside our book. Maybe we will see the picture of this boy again.

[Point to book title as you read it.]

Our book is called, How Do You Feel?

ACT:

[Share two adjacent book pages at a time in the following ways:

  • Read the text on the two pages, emphasizing rhyming words at the end of sentences.
  • Then use your own words in the following ways:
    • Elaborate on the book text you just read. Some phrases and concepts, such as “might stir up that emotion” and “just isn’t fair” may need explanation.
    • Help toddlers connect pictures to the book text, including the event(s) associated with the feeling. Example: On the two pages that focus on feeling embarrassed, point out how each of the children is covering her face (“hide from the world”). Invite toddlers to point to pictures you describe. Examples: Which child has a frown? Which child is getting a hug?
  • Define words that may be unfamiliar to toddlers, such as unkind (not nice).
  • On the two pages focused on feeling mad, draw attention to the picture that is also shown on the book cover. The boy looks mad, maybe because someone gave him a “mean stare.” Ask toddlers whether they think the boy in this picture is also showing a mean stare.
  • On the final two pages, emphasize that it is okay to have different feelings.
  • Repeat and expand on toddler comments. Acknowledge pointing to pictures.]
RECAP:

The children shown in our book had different kinds of feelings. Is it okay to have different kinds of feelings? Why?

What to Look For—Option 1

Sharing two adjacent pages at a time provides opportunities for toddlers to look carefully at the book’s colorful, informative pictures and consider how a facial expression represents a feeling. Focused discussion of the feelings covered in this book can help toddlers strengthen their awareness of specific feelings and perhaps broaden their understanding of circumstances associated with a feeling. Stay in tune with toddlers’ reactions to pictures or discussion so you can tailor your approach to each two-page segment in response to toddlers’ interests or concerns.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Option 1

Extra support

  • If toddlers do not name a feeling when you ask what the boy on the book cover might be feeling, offer two options. Example: “Do you think this boy is feeling happy or mad?”

Enrichment

  • Support toddlers’ awareness of sounds in words by repeating words that sound alike in the book text: zoo, too; down, frown; stare, fair.
Block 24

Exploring Feelings:
Option 2

Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Awareness of emotions
Toddlers participate in a picture-focused discussion of events associated with different feelings and how feelings can change.

Materials
Needed

  • How Do You Feel? (Rookie Toddler) by Jodie Shepherd

Key
Concepts

  • Happy
  • Sad
  • Frown

Also
Promotes

  • Physical / Health
  • Communication / Language

Be Prepared: This is a follow-up activity for toddlers who are familiar with the How Do You Feel? book through participation in Option 1 or a similar book sharing.

How do you feel book coverInvite 3–4 toddlers to join you in talking about pictures of children who are having different kinds of feelings. Open the session by showing the book cover and reminding toddlers that our book tells about different feelings. Explain that you will read the book again and then we can talk about some of the children shown in the book. Use the following approach:

  • Read the book text with minimal or no elaboration. If a toddler offers a comment or question or points to a picture while you are reading, spend some time talking about the toddler’s interest. Point to pictures associated with the book text.
  • Return to the beginning of the book. For each emotion featured in the book, remind toddlers of why the pictured children are experiencing the feeling. Ask toddlers what else might make us feel the emotion. Example: “This little boy is happy because he is getting a nice hug. This little girl is happy because she is spending a day at the zoo. What are some other things that can make us feel happy?”
  • After discussing events or situations that can cause us to feel a specific emotion, turn to the pages on feeling sad.
    • Remind toddlers that the pictured boy is feeling sad because he fell down. He had a happy smile that turned into a frown. Draw attention to the frown on his face. 
    • Lead toddlers in making a big smile and then a frown. 
    • Explain that after a while something good might happen that makes the boy smile again. Ask toddlers for ideas of what might happen that would help the boy feel happy again. (a parent comes to help the child, a friend asks the boy to play a game) 
    • Lead toddlers in making a frown and then a big smile.

Conclude the session by recalling some of the events or circumstances (discussed in the session) that make us feel happy or sad or mad. Remind toddlers that there are many feelings we feel every day. Our feelings can change.

What to Look For—Option 2

The small board book featured in this activity contains a lot of helpful information for toddlers, including colorful and realistic pictures of children. Opening the session by reading the book text without elaboration provides a reminder of the book’s content. Reading all text at once is in contrast with the segmented reading of text in Option 1. The suggested strategies for approaching the current session are intended to unpack the book’s information in two areas: events or circumstances associated with a specific feeling and how feelings (and their facial expressions) can change.

Toddlers may find it challenging to generate examples of a good thing that could happen to help the boy who is feeling sad (from a fall) to feel happy again. Offer one or two realistic possibilities that might prompt toddlers to think of others. See the Extra Support tip. Toddlers will likely enjoy making a big smile and then a frown. The experience of transitioning from a frown to a smile is a unique part of this activity.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Option 2

Extra support

  • Give less attention to discussing feeling embarrassed and excited if you anticipate these emotions will be challenging for toddlers to discuss. It is fine to give primary attention to happy, sad, and mad.
  • In the discussion of events or circumstances that might help us move from feeling sad to feeling happy, turn to the picture of a boy getting a hug (happy) and/or the picture of a girl greeting a grandma (excited) as examples of something good that might happen.

Enrichment

  • When you return to the beginning of the book to discuss each emotion, invite toddlers to tell what pictured children are feeling and why.
Social-Emotional

Interest Area

Materials Needed: How Do You Feel? (Rookie Toddler) by Jodie Shepherd, 3–4 nonbreakable handheld mirrors

Use the colorful pictures in this easy-to-handle board book to support toddlers in exploring facial expressions associated with different feelings. Invite toddlers to think about what his/her face might look like when experiencing an emotion featured in the book. Encourage toddlers to look at their facial expression in a handheld mirror and compare it to a facial expression shown in the book for the same emotion. Emphasize that happy faces can look different, sad faces can look different, and mad faces can look different. Example: The mad faces of the boy and girl are different.

Family Child Care

Family Child Care

Materials Needed: see activity description

Preschool-age children may enjoy participating in Options 1 and 2. Their experiences with feeling embarrassed or excited may be especially helpful to discussions in Option 2. Younger toddlers (12–24 months) may enjoy looking at the pictures of children in the How Do You Feel? board book.