Block 23

Exploring Feelings:
Option 1

Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Awareness of emotions
Toddlers participate in movements related to feeling happy as part of a familiar song.

Materials
Needed

  • Carpet squares—1 per toddler (optional Extra Support tip)

Key
Concepts

  • Happy

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language
  • Self-Regulation
  • Physical / Health

Be Prepared: Be familiar with the words and tune of “If You’re Happy and You Know It.” If you anticipate some toddlers may become overly excited, especially during the suggested “turn around” movement, consider less stimulating actions. See Extra Support tips.

Begin:

[Invite toddlers to join you for a fun song.]

We are going to sing a song we have sung before. Our song is called “If You’re Happy and You Know It.” We have fun singing this song!

Explain:

Today we will learn some new things to do when we sing about being happy. You can sing with me and do what I do!

Act:

[Invite toddlers to stand. Lead toddlers in clapping their hands for the first verse. Begin singing the verse slowly, so toddlers have time to watch your movements as they listen to the words. Smile and make eye contact with each toddler as you sing and clap, encouraging them to join you.

After the first verses (clap your hands), consider the following possibilities or create your own:

  • Turn around
  • Shout “hooray!”

Consider repeating a verse/movement. Have fun with the toddlers as you sing together! Acknowledge the participation of each toddler. Example: “You are having fun turning around, Grayson! You are smiling. I think you are feeling happy!”]

Recap:

We had fun singing our song today! We learned some new things to do with our body when we feel happy. We smiled and showed different ways to say we are happy!

Block 23

Exploring Feelings:
Option 2

Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Awareness of emotions
Toddlers participate in movements related to feeling happy and sad as part of a familiar song.

Materials
Needed

  • Carpet squares—1 per toddler (optional Extra Support tip)

Key
Concepts

  • Happy
  • Sad

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language
  • Self-Regulation
  • Physical / Health

Be Prepared: Be familiar with the words and tune of “If You’re Happy and You Know It.” If you anticipate some toddlers may become overly excited, especially during the suggested “turn around” movement, consider less stimulating actions. See Extra Support tips.

Invite toddlers to join you for a song we have sung before. Sing the first line of “If You’re Happy and You Know It” to remind toddlers of the song. Explain that we will learn some new ways to show we are happy. We also will sing about feeling sad and what we can do if we feel sad.

Sing each verse enthusiastically and demonstrate the movement. You may wish to add other movements, such as “tap your head” for feeling happy. Encourage toddlers to join you. Consider repeating verses and movements. The following order is suggested:

  • Happy: clap your hands
  • Sad: hug yourself
  • Happy: turn around or shout “hooray!”

Conclude the activity by positively recognizing the participation of each toddler.

What to Look For—Options 1–2

Toddlers like this popular song. It is offered often in most early childhood programs and is part of some prior ELM activity plans, although with fewer movements than offered in the current activity. Some toddlers may sing some of the words.

The Option 2 adaptation of the song provides an opportunity for toddlers to practice hugging themselves when they feel sad, a strategy introduced in Block 22. Some toddlers may want to hug you or another adult or a peer in the gathering instead of (or in addition to) themselves. You may wish to add a verse about feeling mad if you have explored this emotion in prior discussions with toddlers. See Enrichment tip.

Some toddlers may prefer to watch and listen. Positively acknowledge all forms of participation.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Options 1–2

Extra support

  • Provide a carpet square for each toddler to stand on during the activity. Place the carpet squares evenly and safely apart prior to the activity.
  • In Option 2, remind toddlers that “hug yourself” is something we can do when we feel sad. Hugging (squeezing) our body can help us feel better.
  • Modify the song so toddlers can participate sitting down. Change “turn around” to a different simple action such as “wiggle your arms.” Alternatively, you may end the song with a final verse that invites the toddlers to sit down. Sing this final verse softly, as a way to encourage toddlers to calm their bodies as they sit on the floor.

Enrichment

  • Invite toddlers to think of new actions or movements, such as “pat your head” when feeling happy or “wiggle your body” when feeling silly.
  • Add feeling mad (angry) with a “stomp our feet” movement before a final verse on feeling happy.
Social-Emotional

Interest Area

Materials Needed: see activity description, Calm-Down Time by Elizabeth Verdick

The attention to feeling sad in Option 2 may be extended to the Interest Area by continuing the Block 22 Interest Area plan of inviting toddlers to gather some items in your room and place them in a temporary, designated space that can be used for calming down. Show and describe the picture of a calm space in Calm-Down Time. Provide comfortable seating and encourage toddlers to focus on materials for doing quiet things. As described in Block 22, the space does not need to be maintained long term or necessarily used by toddlers. The intent is to help toddlers think about materials that can help us get calm. Talk with toddlers about their selections. If a temporary, designated area is not feasible, take several toddlers on a walk through your room and invite them to point to and talk about materials that can help us calm down.

Family Child Care

Family Child Care

Materials Needed: none

Invite a preschool-age or older child to lead one or more of the verses and movements in Option 2. Engage children in some planning prior to the song by inviting and discussing movement ideas to use in the song. Infants will enjoy watching and listening.