Block 22

Exploring Feelings:
Option 1

Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Awareness of emotions
Toddlers identify what the main character of a book may feel in response to different events.

Materials
Needed

  • A Ball for Daisy by Chris Raschka

Key
Concepts

  • Happy
  • Sad

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language
  • Cognitive

Be Prepared: Review each illustration in this wordless book to determine what you will say about the story’s various events. The activity plan invites toddlers to identify and talk about what the main character (Daisy) might feel in response to each event you describe.

A Ball for Daisy book coverInvite 3–5 toddlers to read and talk about a book with you. Show the book cover and explain that our book is about a dog named Daisy. Draw attention to Daisy’s red ball. Explain that the book is special because it has no words. The pictures in our book tell us what happens with Daisy and her red ball.

Point generously as you describe illustrations. Explain specific events, including events that may not be obvious to toddlers. Example: The air came out of the ball when the larger dog picked up the ball with its mouth. Some toddlers may be familiar with air coming out of a balloon when it is popped.

Focus on major events or situations, especially the following:

  • Daisy playing with favorite red ball
  • lying on couch with red ball
  • bigger dog taking Daisy’s favorite ball
  • favorite ball losing its air
  • Daisy getting a new ball
  • Daisy and larger dog playing together again at end of story

For each major event, ask toddlers what Daisy might be feeling. Draw attention to Daisy’s facial expression and body posture. Example: “The other dog took Daisy’s red ball. Look at Daisy’s face. What do you think Daisy is feeling?” Pause for toddlers’ comments. If no comments are offered, draw attention to additional information in the picture. Example: “Look at how Daisy’s head is down. Daisy is looking to the ground.” If this information and another pause do not prompt a response, offer two possible ways Daisy might be feeling. Example: “Do you think Daisy might be feeling happy or sad?”

Conclude the session by explaining that Daisy had different feelings during the story. Name the feelings mentioned by toddlers during the session and remind toddlers what happened when Daisy had a specific feeling. Example: “Daisy was happy when she played with her ball and rested with her ball. Daisy felt happy when she got a new ball. She was happy when she played with the larger dog.”

What to Look For—Option 1

The achievable challenge of this activity is saying what Daisy might be feeling. The book sharing is useful practice for toddlers in connecting an event or situation to an emotion. Support the role differences in this activity: you tell what happened (with toddler help) and toddlers describe what Daisy might be feeling.

Toddlers may be quiet the first time you ask what Daisy might be feeling. Do not rush to provide a response. Offer a little more information about an event or situation, as suggested in the activity description. Then pause again. Offer two feeling possibilities (happy or sad) only when the additional information and second pause do not lead to a toddler comment. After discussion of Daisy’s response to the first event, toddlers may find it easier to think about and respond to your recurring question of what Daisy might be feeling.

Most likely, happy and sad will be the primary or only emotions toddlers mention. Be prepared for a toddler to say that Daisy is mad or angry when the larger dog takes the ball or when the air comes out of the ball. Accept a range of appropriate emotions named by toddlers. Note the question is “what Daisy might be feeling,” and not “what is Daisy feeling.” It is useful for toddlers to consider several different emotion responses, not one only.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Option 1

Extra support

  • Acknowledge and build on toddlers’ comments and pointing.
  • Invite toddlers to point to features of illustrations you describe. Offer time and help because the award-winning illustrations in the book are somewhat abstract.

Enrichment

  • In the opening segment, when you explain our book has no words, remind toddlers that we found words on a “word walk” in our room and we looked at words printed in a book (Communication/Language in the current block). Now we’re looking at a book that has no words to read. But we will say words when we talk about what is happening in the pictures.
Block 22

Exploring Feelings:
Option 2

Social-Emotional

One-to-One

Skill and Goal

Awareness of emotions
A toddler talks about events and situations in a story that are associated with feeling happy or sad.

Materials
Needed

  • A Ball for Daisy by Chris Raschka

Key
Concepts

  • Happy
  • Sad

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language
  • Cognitive

Be Prepared: This activity is for a toddler who participated in Option 1 or is familiar with the A Ball for Daisy story through a similar book sharing.

A Ball for Daisy book coverInvite a toddler to look at A Ball for Daisy with you. Engage the toddler in one of two possible ways with the book:

  1. Support the toddler in using the pictures to recall what happened in the story, including what Daisy may have felt in each event or situation.
  2. Support the toddler in discussing events and situations associated with Daisy feeling happy and then with Daisy feeling sad. Examples: “Let’s look at pictures that tell us about times Daisy was feeling happy.” “Now let’s look at pictures that tell us about times when Daisy was feeling sad.”

The first possibility follows the order of events in the story. The second possibility is more appropriate for a toddler who has a good grasp of the story and is ready to consider events selectively and somewhat out of order. Both approaches emphasize the toddler as storyteller and connections between events/situations and Daisy’s feelings.

Conclude the session with positive acknowledgment of the toddler’s efforts to tell a story and help us remember what Daisy felt and why.

What to Look For—Option 2

The second approach to the session is more challenging than the first approach because story events are organized by one of two feelings (happy and sad), not by the order in which they occurred. If a toddler finds the second approach too challenging, it is easy for you to transition to the first approach during the session.

The one-to-one configuration supports individualization of the session. Spend more time on parts of the story that are of interest to the toddler. It is not necessary to give equal attention to all events.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Option 2

Extra support

  • For the second approach (organized by happy and sad), focus on the following for Daisy feeling happy: Daisy playing with her red ball, lying on the couch with her red ball, and being given a new (blue) ball by a friend. Focus on the following for Daisy feeling sad: bigger dog taking Daisy’s favorite ball and the favorite ball losing its air and being destroyed.

Enrichment

  • Talk about how the friend who gave Daisy a new ball was being helpful to Daisy.
Social-Emotional

Interest Area

Materials Needed: A Ball for Daisy by Chris Raschka, pet animal figures or soft animal toys

Place the book and toy animals on a low table. Invite toddlers to look at the book pictures and act out parts of the story with the toys or create their own play themes with the toy animals.

Family Child Care

Family Child Care

Materials Needed: A Ball for Daisy by Chris Raschka, teddy bear or other soft animal toy

Invite preschool-age and older children to join toddlers in Option 1. Invite preschool-age and older children to describe situations or things that make them feel happy and situations or things that make them feel sad.