Block 21

Exploring Feelings:
Option 1

Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Awareness of emotions
Toddlers participate in a book sharing about a boy who does many different things and has different types of feelings.

Materials
Needed

  • I Feel by Cheri J. Meiners

Key
Concepts

  • Feeling

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language

Begin:

I Feel book cover[Invite several toddlers to read a book about a boy and the different things he does. Show the book cover and point to the boy and dog when you name each.]

Our book tells us about this boy. Here is the boy’s dog. The boy is hugging his dog.

Let’s look at the boy’s face.

Ask:
  • Do you think the boy is feeling happy or sad? (happy)
  • What in the picture tells us the boy is feeling happy? (smile on face)

[Repeat and expand on toddlers’ comments. Point to and emphasize parts of the book’s cover picture that tell us what the boy is feeling.]

Ask:

[Use the following strategies to share the book:

  • Add your own words to the book text to describe and explain what is happening. Example: “The boy is crying because he hurt his knee.”
  • Point out what the boy is feeling inside. Example: “The boy is feeling sad because his kite crashed.”
  • Emphasize that the boy’s feelings change when different things happen. Example: “Here the boy is smiling and feeling happy. Oh no, his kite crashed! Look at his face. Is he feeling happy now? What is he feeling now?”
  • Draw attention to the situation where the boy was angry because his friend was trying to take his ball. Emphasize that the boy and his friend talked, and talking with his friend helped the boy feel better inside.
  • Acknowledge and build on toddlers’ comments and pointing. Examples: “You said ‘uh oh,’ Evelyn. The boy’s kite crashed.” “Wyatt said ‘owie.’ The boy fell off his bike and hurt his knee.”]
Recap:

The boy in our story did many different things. Sometimes he felt happy. Sometimes he felt sad. He had different kinds of feelings.

What to Look For—Option 1

The experiences of the boy in this story will be of interest to most toddlers. Look for ways to enhance toddlers’ awareness of (1) the different feelings experienced by the boy and (2) how the boy’s feelings changed and are connected to the situations he experienced. These are the basic messages of the session. If a toddler shows interest in a specific situation, retell the part of the story of interest. The session is not intended to provide an in-depth look at different types of feelings.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Option 1

Extra support

  • In discussion of the picture and text about feeling loved, remind toddlers of our story about Mama Fox always loving Little Fox, no matter what Little Fox did (Block 20).
  • Emphasize that when the boy is feeling up, he is feeling good inside (happy) and when he is feeling down, he feels bad inside (sad).

Enrichment

  • Encourage a toddler to tell about a similar situation (such as hurting his/her own knee) if the toddler introduces the topic.
Block 21

Exploring Feelings:
Option 2

Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Awareness of emotions
Toddlers participate in a book-related discussion of how to manage a situation(s) related to feeling worried or upset.

Materials
Needed

  • I Feel by Cheri J. Meiners

Key
Concepts

  • Feeling

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language
  • Self-Regulation

I Feel book coverThis activity is for toddlers who are familiar with the I Feel book from participation in Option 1 or a similar book sharing. Select 1–2 worrisome or upsetting situations in the story that you anticipate would be helpful for toddlers in your room to explore in a little more depth. The situation might pertain to feeling afraid or a toy-related conflict with a peer. Use your most recent experiences with toddlers in your room to make this decision.

Open the session by reminding toddlers about the story, especially how the boy did different things and how his feelings changed. Show selected pages and use your own words to describe examples of what happened. This segment of the activity is for review purposes only.

Return to the picture(s) that shows the situation you wish to highlight in this session. Use the following approach:

  1. Invite toddlers to tell what happened. Repeat and build on their comments.
  2. Offer a brief summary of the situation, making sure you describe it in the order in which it happened. Point to pertinent parts of the picture.
  3. Emphasize what the boy did to feel better about the situation. Add additional suggestions about what a toddler could do to deal with the situation. Examples: Asking for help from an adult, telling what we feel inside, talking about what happened.

Conclude the session with firm reassurances that people in our room and families can help us when we feel worried or upset.

What to Look For—Option 2

Toddlers will likely differ in their readiness to contribute verbally to this session. Some may prefer to watch and listen. Look for ways to communicate and reinforce the general message that there are things we can do when we feel worried or upset (referenced as feeling “down” in the book). Toddlers are not expected to learn and remember a range of different actions to take when feeling worried or upset.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Option 2

Extra support

  • This session may be more helpful to some toddlers when offered one-to-one.

Enrichment

  • Use a teddy bear or similar prop to role-play a helpful response to the situation you highlight.
Social-Emotional

Interest Area

Materials Needed: dollhouse with furnishings and people figures

These play materials typically have considerable appeal. Periodically stop by the play area, observe long enough to get a good idea of the toddlers’ theme or uses of the people figures, and gently ask what a people figure you name might be feeling. Example: “The baby is crying. What do you think the baby is feeling?”

Family Child Care

Family Child Care

Materials Needed: I Feel by Cheri J. Meiners

Preschool-age children may welcome participation in Option 2, especially in a one-to-one context that addresses a pertinent situation(s) described in the book. Offer a teddy bear or other prop the child could use to act out a way to respond to feeling worried or upset.