Awareness of emotions
Toddlers participate in a book sharing about a boy who does many different things and has different types of feelings.
[Invite several toddlers to read a book about a boy and the different things he does. Show the book cover and point to the boy and dog when you name each.]
Our book tells us about this boy. Here is the boy’s dog. The boy is hugging his dog.
Let’s look at the boy’s face.
[Repeat and expand on toddlers’ comments. Point to and emphasize parts of the book’s cover picture that tell us what the boy is feeling.]
[Use the following strategies to share the book:
The boy in our story did many different things. Sometimes he felt happy. Sometimes he felt sad. He had different kinds of feelings.
The experiences of the boy in this story will be of interest to most toddlers. Look for ways to enhance toddlers’ awareness of (1) the different feelings experienced by the boy and (2) how the boy’s feelings changed and are connected to the situations he experienced. These are the basic messages of the session. If a toddler shows interest in a specific situation, retell the part of the story of interest. The session is not intended to provide an in-depth look at different types of feelings.
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Awareness of emotions
Toddlers participate in a book-related discussion of how to manage a situation(s) related to feeling worried or upset.
This activity is for toddlers who are familiar with the I Feel book from participation in Option 1 or a similar book sharing. Select 1–2 worrisome or upsetting situations in the story that you anticipate would be helpful for toddlers in your room to explore in a little more depth. The situation might pertain to feeling afraid or a toy-related conflict with a peer. Use your most recent experiences with toddlers in your room to make this decision.
Open the session by reminding toddlers about the story, especially how the boy did different things and how his feelings changed. Show selected pages and use your own words to describe examples of what happened. This segment of the activity is for review purposes only.
Return to the picture(s) that shows the situation you wish to highlight in this session. Use the following approach:
Conclude the session with firm reassurances that people in our room and families can help us when we feel worried or upset.
Toddlers will likely differ in their readiness to contribute verbally to this session. Some may prefer to watch and listen. Look for ways to communicate and reinforce the general message that there are things we can do when we feel worried or upset (referenced as feeling “down” in the book). Toddlers are not expected to learn and remember a range of different actions to take when feeling worried or upset.
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Materials Needed: dollhouse with furnishings and people figures
These play materials typically have considerable appeal. Periodically stop by the play area, observe long enough to get a good idea of the toddlers’ theme or uses of the people figures, and gently ask what a people figure you name might be feeling. Example: “The baby is crying. What do you think the baby is feeling?”
Materials Needed: I Feel by Cheri J. Meiners
Preschool-age children may welcome participation in Option 2, especially in a one-to-one context that addresses a pertinent situation(s) described in the book. Offer a teddy bear or other prop the child could use to act out a way to respond to feeling worried or upset.