Block 17

Exploring Feelings:
Option 1

Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Awareness of emotions
Toddlers make happy and sad faces as part of a review of a story about feeling happy and sad.

Materials
Needed

  • A Ball for Daisy by Chris Raschke

Key
Concepts

  • Feelings
  • Happy
  • Sad

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language
  • Physical / Health

Begin:

[Invite several toddlers to join you to make happy and sad faces.]

Explain:

A Ball For Daisy book coverSometimes things happen that make us feel happy. Sometimes things happen that make us feel sad.

[Show book cover.]

A while ago we read this book about a dog named Daisy. Daisy liked to play with a favorite ball. One day a larger dog took Daisy’s ball. The larger dog broke the ball. Then a friend gave Daisy a new ball.

Let’s look at some pictures of things that happened in this book.

Act:

[Display book illustrations that show the following in the order in which they happened: (1) playing with red ball, (2) lying on couch with red ball, (3) bigger dog taking Daisy’s favorite ball, (4) favorite ball being destroyed by bigger dog, and (5) a friend giving Daisy a new ball. For each illustration:

  • Use your own words to remind toddlers what is happening in the picture.
  • Ask whether Daisy is feeling happy or sad.
  • Point to and describe features of Daisy’s face and body posture that show how Daisy feels.
  • Make a facial expression that represents how Daisy felt. Example: “We can make a big smile when we feel happy. Look at the big smile on my face!”
  • Encourage toddlers to make the facial expression you demonstrate.]
Recap:

We talked about feeling happy and feeling sad. Things happened that made Daisy feel happy. Things also happened that made Daisy feel sad. Our face can tell people how we are feeling.

What to Look For—Option 1

Happy and sad feelings were explored with this book in Block 14 (Social-Emotional). The story is reviewed in the current activity with a combination of different strategies pursued for key events. The strategies were not offered in a combined manner in Block 14. The strategies are used together in a repetitive approach in the current activity to strengthen toddlers’ awareness of happy and sad feelings. Happy and sad are typically the first emotions young children learn to name. Some toddlers may prefer to watch others make happy and sad faces rather than offer a happy or sad expression with their own face. Positively acknowledge all forms of participation.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Option 1

Extra support

  • Read the book, using strategies suggested in Block 14 (Social-Emotional), if toddlers do not seem to recall the story.
  • Point to key parts of your face when you demonstrate happy and sad expressions. Examples: Point to your mouth and describe how it looks when you smile. Point to how you look down when making a sad face.

Enrichment

  • Ask toddlers to tell or point to the part or position of their face that tells us they feel happy (or sad).
Block 17

Exploring Feelings:
Option 2

Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Awareness of emotions
Toddlers are encouraged to use different ways to communicate feeling happy or sad in response to a pretend event described by a caregiver.

Materials
Needed

None

Key
Concepts

  • Feelings
  • Happy
  • Sad

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language
  • Cognitive

Invite several toddlers to join you to talk and sing about feeling happy or sad. Describe two pretend situations, one at a time, and encourage toddlers to communicate with words, facial expressions, and song how the situation might make them feel. Use the following order:

  • Briefly describe a pretend situation. Examples: “Let’s pretend we built a tall tower with blocks and it fell down.” “Let’s pretend we are going with our family to our favorite place to eat.”
  • Ask toddlers how the situation might make them feel. Example: “Would you feel happy or sad?”
  • Invite toddlers to use a short sentence to say they feel happy or sad. Example: “Let’s all say together, ‘I feel happy.’”
  • Lead toddlers in making a facial expression that communicates the feeling. Example: “Let’s use our faces to show how we would feel.”
  • Lead toddlers in singing with actions an appropriate verse of “If You’re Happy and You Know It.” Examples: “If we’re happy and we know it, clap our hands.” “If we’re sad and we know it, stomp our feet.”

What to Look For—Option 2

This short activity is intended to reinforce toddlers’ awareness of how happy and sad feelings can be communicated. Toddlers may differ in whether they participate in each of the different forms of communication offered in the activity: saying the feeling word, making a facial expression that shows the feeling, and singing about the feeling with actions. Inviting toddlers to use the feeling word in a brief sentence may seem unnecessary after they identify a feeling, but an important step in awareness of feelings is to say how we feel.

Elaborate slightly on your verbal description of a situation if it appears toddlers are confused about the pretend arrangement. It is cognitively challenging to imagine an event without a picture or props. Use situations that most toddlers in your room will have experienced or watched.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Option 2

Extra support

  • Point to your mouth when you demonstrate a smile or a frown.

Enrichment

  • Draw attention to different ways toddlers show happy and sad facial expressions.
  • Use “pat your legs” instead of the suggested “stomp your feet” in the song if you anticipate stomping may lead to overexcitement.
Social-Emotional

Interest Area

Materials Needed: pictures of different common facial expressions

Display on a wall or room divider some pictures of young children (preferably toddlers or preschool-age children) showing different facial expressions. Talk with individual or several toddlers about the expressions. Point to facial features you or the toddler mentions. Encourage the toddler(s) to join you in making a similar expression. Emphasize how each of us may make a different kind of happy or sad face.

Family Child Care

Family Child Care

Materials Needed: none

In Option 2, invite preschool-age or older children to lead toddlers in making a happy or sad face and in singing an appropriate verse of the suggested song. An older child may wish to show several different versions of happy and sad faces. Some smiles are bigger than others. Some frowns are more pronounced than others. An older child can help show there are different types of happy and sad faces.