Block 13

Interacting with Others:
Option 1

Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Social interaction skills
Toddlers help a caregiver with a cleaning task.

Materials
Needed

  • Sponges—1 per toddler and caregiver
  • Dishpan or tub (see Be Prepared)
  • Baby shampoo (see Be Prepared)
  • Paper towels (Scaffolding tips)

Key
Concepts

  • Help
  • Wash

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language
  • Physical / Health

Be Prepared: Put one inch of warm water in the tub with several drops of baby shampoo to create soapy bubbles for washing a table. Alternatively, you may wish to use a spray bottle to lightly spray the table and invite toddlers to use dry sponges to wipe up the water.

Begin:

[Invite several toddlers to join you at a low table.]

I am looking for some helpers to wash our table. I have a sponge for each of you. We can wet the sponges and then use them to clean.

Ask:

Who would like to help clean our table? It is great to have helpers!

Act:

[Pause for the toddlers to respond. Give each interested toddler a damp sponge.]

Let’s use our sponges to clean our table! We can push your sponge down and move it back and forth, like this. We use our hands and arms to move our sponge on the table.

[Demonstrate how to move the sponge side to side. Acknowledge each toddler’s efforts. Example: “Isaiah is moving his sponge back and forth. Isaiah is helping to clean our table!”]

Would you like to wet your sponges in the water? You can put your sponge in the water and then squeeze it with your hand, like this.

[Demonstrate the squeezing motion and invite each toddler to take a turn wetting their sponge.

Continue to encourage the toddlers to wash the table, acknowledging each of their efforts. Example: “Jordan is using her sponge to make the table clean!”

As the activity wraps up, thank the toddlers for being good helpers. Ask them to put the sponges into the tub. Dry any wet spots on the floor.]

Recap:

You were helpers today! You helped me wash our table. We worked hard with our hands and arms. The table is really clean now! We all take care of our room.

What to Look For—Option 1

This activity is a simple and enjoyable way for toddlers to experience being a helper in a classroom community. Learning to help others is an important step in the development of prosocial behaviors. Look for ways to point out the use of hands and arms, as suggested in the activity description, to strengthen awareness of how we use parts of our body.

Toddlers may wish to come and go from this activity. Acknowledge their contributions. Example: “Jordan helped us wash the table. Now she is going to find another activity. Thank you, Jordan, for being a helper!” Emphasize each toddler’s efforts to help, rather than the amount of participation.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Option 1

Extra support

  • Toddlers who get overly excited about the water may be more successful with a sponge that is damp rather than wet.
  • Toddlers who do not enjoy getting their hands wet may prefer to help another way, such as using a paper towel to dry the wet table.

Enrichment

  • Invite toddlers to clean up as the activity ends. Provide paper towels and encourage toddlers to wipe up any excess water, particularly on the floor.
  • Invite interested toddlers to think about other areas of the room that may need washing, such as chairs and plastic toys. Smaller items could be placed in a water table with a small amount of baby shampoo.
Block 13

Interacting with Others:
Option 2

Social-Emotional

One-to-One

Skill and Goal

Social interaction skills
A toddler helps water a plant in your room.

Materials
Needed

  • Indoor plant(s)
  • Small watering can

Key
Concepts

  • Helping
  • Water

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language
  • Physical / Health

spider plantInvite a toddler to help you water a plant(s) in your room. Explain that plants need water in order to stay healthy and to grow. Invite the toddler to visit each of the plants with you to determine if they need water. Describe how you are feeling the dirt to see if it is dry. Encourage the toddler to help hold the watering can as you fill it with water. Use smaller amounts of water to make the watering can easier for the toddler to carry and to discourage overwatering. Encourage the toddler to carry the watering can to the first plant. Provide hand-over-hand support to help the toddler slowly pour a small amount of water into the pot. Affirm the toddler’s efforts to help the plant(s) stay healthy and grow. Example: “You had a special job today, Justice. You gave our plants water and helped them to grow! You are a good helper.”

What to Look For—Option 2

Some toddlers will be able to carry the watering can to a plant independently, whereas others may need support. The activity description suggests hand-on-hand support for tipping the watering can, but some toddlers may not need this level of assistance. It is important to encourage a toddler to do as much as he/she can on his/her own. Spills can be easily cleaned up and overwatering can be avoided if there is a small amount of water in the can. Emphasize and acknowledge the toddler’s efforts to help the plants rather than their success in completing the job correctly. If a toddler is not interested in helping to care for a plant, offer a different meaningful contribution to your room, such as using a small brush and dustpan to sweep under the sensory table.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Option 2

Extra support

  • Offer hand-over-hand assistance in a collaborative way. Example: “I can hold the watering can over the pot. You can tip it forward to make the water come out.”

Enrichment

  • Feel the dirt after the plant is watered and describe for the toddler how the dirt is now wet. Remind the toddler the dirt was dry before the plant was watered.
Block 13

Interacting with Others:
Option 3

Social-Emotional

Informal Gathering

Skill and Goal

Social interaction skills
Toddlers work together to organize materials in the room.

Materials
Needed

  • Assortment of blocks
  • Large basket
  • Empty shelf

Key
Concepts

  • Working together

Also
Promotes

  • Communication / Language
  • Physical / Health

Be Prepared: Put the blocks in the basket and prepare an empty shelf for the blocks to be stacked on. Place the basket of blocks nearby, but far enough away for toddlers to have the opportunity to carry the blocks to the shelf.

Invite several toddlers to help with an important job. Explain that the blocks in the basket need to be moved to the empty shelf. Demonstrate picking up a block with both hands and carrying it to the shelf. Encourage toddlers to work together to place all the blocks on the shelf. Provide support and guidance as the toddlers move the blocks together. This may include the following strategies:

  • Look for ways to promote cooperation. Example: “One of the blocks Madison is carrying fell on the floor. Xander, can you help Madison pick up the block? You can work together to put the blocks on the shelf.”
  • Model words the toddlers can use while working together. Example: “Xander gave you a block to carry, Madison. You can say ‘thank you!’”
  • Describe what the toddlers are doing as they are doing it. Example: “Madison and James are stacking the blocks next to each other on the shelf. Madison and James are working together to put the blocks away!”

Affirm the toddlers’ efforts, including cooperation. Example: “You all worked together to move the blocks to the shelf! Look at all the blocks stacked on our shelf! We all take care of our room. You are good helpers.”

What to Look For—Option 3

This activity provides an opportunity for toddlers to work together to help care for some materials in the room. It is an informal introduction to some of the cleanup routines in preschool-age rooms. In addition to looking for ways to acknowledge and promote cooperation, pay attention to whether guidance is needed for the logistics of sharing space at the container of blocks, walking from box to shelf, and at the shelf. Toddlers may be eager to do their job and not notice that another toddler is trying to pick up blocks from the same section of the box or put blocks on the same part of the shelf. High levels of eagerness or excitement about the task may also prompt some toddlers to bump into each other while carrying a block.

You may wish to offer an expectation about the number of blocks a toddler is to carry. A toddler can benefit from figuring out how many blocks he/she can reasonably carry. On the other hand, setting a limit can help prevent toddlers from dropping blocks that others may stumble over. Encourage toddlers to persist in completing the task of moving the blocks to the shelf. See the Extra Support tip idea of making up a chant to say or sing as toddlers carry the blocks.

Scaffolding tips

More Scaffolding Tips—Option 3

Extra support

  • Use fewer blocks if you anticipate toddlers may lose interest in completing the task.
  • Eliminate the block-stacking part of the activity if this is too challenging. Invite toddlers to carry the blocks to you while you stack the blocks on the shelf.
  • Support toddlers’ engagement and persistence by creating and offering a simple chant. Example: “Xander is carrying the blocks, carrying the blocks, carrying the blocks. Xander is carrying the blocks, because he is a good helper!”

Enrichment

  • Provide two types or sizes of blocks for the toddlers to carry. Invite toddlers to sort the blocks into two piles/stacks on the shelf. Example: One side of the shelf for large blocks, the other side for small blocks.
  • Invite toddlers to choose a specific task, such as carrying or stacking. Encourage a toddler who carries blocks to give the blocks to his/her peer who is stacking blocks on the shelf.
Social-Emotional

Interest Area

Materials Needed: sensory table with water, baby shampoo, several sponges, towel or paper towels, toy kitchen items (such as dishes, pots and pans, eating utensils)

Place the toy kitchen items in an inch of warm water in the sensory table with a small amount of baby shampoo. Explain that our toys need to be cleaned. Invite toddlers to use sponges to wash the items. Talk with toddlers about their actions with the materials. If water spills out, ask toddlers to help by using the towel/paper towels to wipe it up.

Family Child Care

Family Child Care

Materials Needed: none

Options 1 and 3 emphasize cooperating with a peer. If there is a limited number of toddlers in your setting for implementing these activity options, consider pairing a toddler with an older toddler or preschool-age child. Another possibility is to emphasize jointly working with you as part of these activities. Doing the tasks independently does not support the foundation skill promoted in the activities.